I was outside and my mother ran out to tell me my father who abandoned me wanted to get back in contact with me but I refused to call him
This dream could represent conflicting emotions about the relationship with your father. Your mother represented the part of you who wants you to reconnect with your father. However, your refusal to call him may indicate unresolved feelings of anger and betrayal towards him for abandoning you. It could also suggest that you are not ready to forgive him and let him back into your life at this time. It may be beneficial to explore these emotions and consider seeking therapy to help you process them.